What many of us tend to do, especially after being hurt from a relationship, is to judge ourselves and the people we were once in a relationship with for the hurt we experienced. What is important to understand is that behind the dynamics of such an experience and the root cause of our hurt and wounding there is always trauma that most of the time involves both us and the other person. Here are 17 symptoms of relational trauma and if we see them as trauma-responses and NOT as